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Who CISM Serves

Single men and women age 22+ that are able to marry within the church who are seeking their Sacrificial Ever After

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Where our Clients live

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General Questions

  • We protect all identifying information similar to a healthcare/counseling professional. Our matchmaker keeps your profile, preferences, stories, contact information, etc. confidential. More information regarding our privacy policy here

  • We trust in God’s timing so the timeline varies for each individual. Some may connect with a compatible partner quickly, while others may take more time. Our priority is the quality of connections rather than speed. 

  • Occasionally we open up subscriptions based on availability. Be on the lookout for emails from matchmaker@commitmentism.com. It does surrender your opportunity to test our process but if you’re eager and we are able, let’s do it! 

  • From the initial phone call with the matchmaker to 4 months later is the timeframe the matchmaker will actively be looking for YOU. Communicate with the matchmaker regarding the circumstances and we will determine what is just on a case-by-case basis. 

Pricing Questions

  • Filling out a profile is free. When we find a first match for you, the matching fee is $48. If that person isn’t a match, an I Seek Marriage Subscription is $320-$960 depending on age group. Click here to see detailed pricing.

  • Unfortunately not. Our goal is to find you a quality match and get you married. We don’t enjoy how dating apps are incentivized to keep you as members. We charge a flat rate upfront in exchange for the work we will do to find you someone. 

  • Not for the first match. If we don’t send you a match for the 4 months during membership, we will refund you 25% of your membership cost. 

  • Our hope is that we find you someone worthy of pursuing so you don’t need to renew. However, if you are pleased with our services and would like to continue working together, we can continue bringing you quality candidates throughout our time together. Renewals are entirely up to you!